
I have to say this was one of the best weeks I have had living in Aberdeen. First off, I met three American girls my age with no kids at the American Women's Association newcomer's coffee on Wednesday. Second, I am getting more and more comfortable at the international school and I love being a part of a school again.
New Friends
On Wednesday I went to the American Women's Association newcomer's coffee and met three girls that are in the same situation as myself. We were all so excited to meet each other and discuss how each of us were adjusting to this crazy and exciting life we have all signed up for!
All of the girls husbands are involved in the oil and gas business. Allison will actually be moving in two months to Mumbai, India which is very saddening considering we just met each other and got along great. Amber will be here another year and a half and Lynne will be here indefinitely because her husband is Scottish and from Aberdeen. We all went to coffee then lunch Wednesday, happy hour on Friday and we are going to Cruden Bay on Thursday of this week. Lynne lives in Cruden Bay which is an hour away from Aberdeen. She lives on the beach and is a mile's walk away from Slain Castle so we are hiking through the woods to this beautiful ruin on the cliff. Slain's Castle is said to be the inspiration for Bram Stoker's Dracula in 1795 after he visited the castle. Needless to say I am looking forward to our outing on Thursday.
I am sure most people are thinking why meeting friends classifies this as one of the best weeks ever. Meeting people in a foreign country that you can relate to and have something in common with has been extremely difficult here. I have met many American women already but they all have kids and they all have that in common. You truly feel like being a five year old again when you see girls out having fun together because you just want to walk up and ask will you be my friend. I have to admit I was very desperate for a friend here after three months of not having any of my own and Wednesday was extremely exciting for all three of us to have met each other.
The International School
This was my third week at the international school and yes I am still loving it. I have been substituting a little bit and volunteering the rest of the time. Being around all of these kids who are also in the same situation as me makes me feel more at home in a weird way. They are by no means all American though. The class I am volunteering in has Dutch, Nigerian, Iranian, Pakistani, German, Scottish, English, American, Indian, etc..... That is in just one class. Talk about differentiation! I would say that the majority of the students are oil and gas kids. Meaning their fathers work for the oil and gas companies and they move from place to place. This week they had to write an essay and the prompt was "Is it good to move" Why or why not? It was sad reading some of the students papers because they would say "I just got settled, made friends and then here we go again". Others said you might as well move because all of your friends will leave anyway. Of course, they weren't all sad. Some were very interesting. My favorite was the fifth grader who said he loved moving because he was a "Scholar in culture". Ha! These students are extremely bright and have very high expectations at the international school. I am sure you teachers who read my blog are wondering do they have standardized testing. Heck no!! They actually have the international school test this week but it is not multiple choice but a written test and it is only two days and over by eleven. They do not freak the kids out the way Texas does by cramming them with information all year and giving them test taking strategies. Seriously on Wednesday and Friday they had an hour lesson on the writing and an hour on the math. That's it! I am giving the test on Tuesday and I was asking when the training was for being a proctor and what room will the students be in. How are we collecting the documents and will highlighters be available? The teachers had to calm me down and tell me it wasn't that big of a deal. You will be fine and it is nothing like the testing you are used to in Texas. Why can't testing be like this everywhere. Even the teachers stress out in Texas and they aren't even taking the test. Being able to be a part of the international school has been a very positive thing for me while living here and I am learning new things every day.
Aberdeen
The picture above shows that it snowed yet again. I am so tired of it. It is very difficult to walk in and the snow ruins your shoes. I have salt stains on the majority of my boots but I am buying wellies on Wednesday. So excited about that! Wellies are galoshes or rubber boots. :) I tried to buy them yesterday but I was so ready to get out of the crazy grocery store. The grocery stores are like battle zones here with your cart. Clifton has to steer the cart because I will seriously ram someone. I have no patience in the grocery stores. There are too many people and everyone is out for themselves or their food I guess you should say. They will hit you with their cart, get in front of you while you are looking for something and block you in aisles and don't care at all. There is no common courtesy in a grocery store. I am telling you shopping at Target on a Saturday afternoon in Texas is nothing compared to this. Multiply that by 20 with rude Scots! You have to get your mind right and have a game plan when you go in to Sainsbury's or Asda! I have not even tried to go big grocery shopping by myself. Clifton and I work together when grocery shopping.
This next week is of course full of work and then my outing with the girls on Thursday so I am sure I will have much more to add to the blog next week!